1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?

#1.  If a client comes from a cultural tradition that sanctions the use of a ri

#1.  If a client comes from a cultural tradition that sanctions the use of a ritual that you believe is harmful (e.g., female circumcision), do you believe that your highest responsibility as a therapist is to respect the client’s cultural identity or to act based on your personal values?
#2. Which do you think is more traumatic and why: the death of a young child, an adolescent, a partner in early adulthood, midlife or later adulthood, a parent while one is either a child, adolescent, early adult, adult in midlife or in older life? Explain your answer.
#3. Do you think it is harder for families to cope with progressive, relapsing, or constant illness that are either acute or gradual? Please explain your answer and give examples to support your points. 

 Identify your own areas of stress when working with families. How will you h

 Identify your own areas of stress when working with families.
How will you handle those stressors?
How will working with families of a culture different from your own be challenging for you?
How will you help resolve conflicts with families from a different culture?

1.  Single-Father Families:  Single dad families: Advantages: Men’s example: Si

1.  Single-Father Families: 
Single dad families:
Advantages:
Men’s example: Single-dad families can give a favorable example for kids, giving guidance and help in sections that may historically be linked with the dad figure.
Gender Diversity: Youth in single-parent families can help from exposure to various gene perspectives and duties. 
Shared responsibility: In a few cases, single-dad families can have more workable and fair sharing of households and youth duties compared to the historical family structure.
Disadvantages: 
Limit Social Support: Single dads might experience social stigma or not receive enough assistance compared to single moms as they may not be fit for historical gene responsibility. 
Emotional Challenge:  Single dads may have difficulties coping and much more. Also, they are not likely to look for help due to social requirements. 
Single mother families:
Advantages:
Strong support network: Single moms constantly create a powerful network with loved ones and friends. They also give feeling support.
Resilience: Single moms might grow to be resilient and self-rule when going around difficulties and duties with determination.
Disadvantage:
Single moms are likely to experience financial difficulties. The cause of this is gene pay and much more.  
Time constraint: Single moms may have complications in balancing their jobs and babysitters, which can cause tiredness.
” Few youth  are born into single families  and some  single families are  generated  in adolscene years  through seperation or adoption”(McGoldrick, 2016  PAGE  396)
Question to genreate: What are some other advantages and disavantes ?
2. Single-father and single-mother households both have their advantages and disadvantages. Single-father homes can be a positive thing for showing a more masculine home for boys. Also, fathers tend to be more firm on structure and being the one to discipline. On the negative side fathers teng to not have the emtional side children of any age need, they teng to struggle with how to express emotions. Single-mother homes offer more of a nurturing environment providing chidlren emotional support and guidance through challanging times. The negative side to a single-mother home is that women sometimes have sacrifice work to be able to take care of children making fiances dificult 

1  First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the lov

1  First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2.When considering whether to tell your children about the reason for the divorce, you should prioritize the well-being of your children. While honesty is important, revealing infidelity could cause emotional distress for the children and harm their relationship with their father. Consider your children’s ages, maturity levels, and emotional readiness to handle such information. Instead of disclosing specific details about infidelity, I encourage you to focus on explaining the divorce in an age-appropriate way and emphasize that it is a decision between the parents unrelated to the children’s behavior or worthiness of love. Reassure them that you and your husband still love them and will remain there for them throughout this process.
Children are fragile during separation or divorce, and maintaining a nurturing, supportive parent-child relationship is essential. To protect the well-being of your children and foster resilience. factors like warmth, effective discipline, communication, and low conflict are the most important. Critical strategies for parents include open communication, empathy, establishing routines, and spending quality time with each child. Ambiguity, especially within divorce, amplifies stress. Acknowledging the divorce as a shift from a single nuclear family to two separate households can help diminish this ambiguity and ease some stress. Understanding what is happening and the divorce process will empower your children to handle the transition better, make informed decisions, and manage their emotions effectively (McGoldrick et al., 2015).
This period is challenging for the whole family, and I understand that this period may be one of the most stressful times for you. However, over the next few months, handling conflicts respectfully, maintaining boundaries, and prioritizing your children’s well-being will be crucial for the well-being of your children. Additionally, when you have healed and decide to engage in new romantic relationships, it is essential to proceed with caution when introducing new partners to your children. Most importantly, take care of your own well-being and seek professional help. A therapist or counselor helping families navigate divorce and its impact on children can offer personalized advice and tailor support to your family’s unique circumstances (Chavda & Nisarga, 2023).

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love

1.First I would start of with telling her that she is deserving of all the love and respect in the world. Show yourself your selfworth. If he is not capable of showing respect, show yourself and your children you are worthy. 
As for telling the children, I am a firm believer that it is very important to inform them because it can be very easy to get confused as a child as many up and downs, back and forth happen between adults in this moment. Children deserve to know the truth of the matter because it is also their life that is changing entirely but also taking into consideration their age and mantal capacity.A healthy relationship with your ex can help the children process their emotions of all the unknowns of the changes to come. Open communication on changes that are happening can help them easily navigate through daily concerns, emotions and any fears they may be facing. Always showing a united front is key in communicating things about the matter to children, this way both parents know what is being said. Also, allow children to be honest with how they feel at any moment. As a parent one must be minful at the fact that the children have lost their home as they knew and a parent in their daily lives. Children will always need both parents in their lives and keeping them as priorty is first and for most. 
2. Going through a divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, can be a harrowing and stressful time in one’s life. You are right to wonder how much to share with your children. Research emphasizes prioritizing children’s needs during divorce, providing security, stability, and open communication (Amato, 2009). While honesty is essential, tailor the information to their age and maturity. As Dr. Judith Wallerstein, a renowned divorce researcher, suggests, “focusing on the broader issues that led to the divorce, such as ‘a lack of love’ or ‘constant fighting'” can be a helpful approach (Wallerstein, 2003, p. 42). This explanation is truthful without burdening them with adult concerns.
Most importantly, create a safe space for questions and reassurance. Let them know you love them dearly and that the divorce is not their fault. Consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist specializing in divorce to help your children adjust and maintain healthy relationships with both parents (Amato, 2009). Remember, many families navigate divorce, and resources are available to support you through this challenging transition.
While going through my divorce from my daughter’s father some years ago, one important thing that our family and divorce therapist taught us was to never talk down about or on the other parent, especially in front of the children, as this can cause problems with the child during the divorce to swing one direction or the other and this is fair to nobody especially the child (Emery, 2015). They should never feel like they have to choose sides. Remember, this divorce is between you and your spouses, and the children should never get involved with the messy, grave details.
Remember, you are not alone. Many families go through divorce, and resources are available to help you navigate this challenging transition. Here are some resources that you might find helpful:
The American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/topics/divorce-child-custody
The National Healthy Marriage Resource Center: http://www.healthymarriageinfo.org/research-policy/marriage-facts-and-research/
With time, understanding, and the right resources, you and your children can adjust to this new chapter in your lives.
I wish you all the best,
Leslie (The Advice Columnist)
QUESTION FOR THE CLASS AND PROFESSOR KRISTIN:
Divorce often disrupts family dynamics. How can Lady in Distress (I decided not to give her a name for anonymity) encourage and support her children in maintaining healthy relationships with both her and their father despite the marital breakdown?